Pope Francis answers questions from journalists aboard his flight from Manila, Philippines, to Rome Jan. 19. CNS photo/Paul Haring

Pope’s remark doesn’t rile large families

By 
  • February 1, 2015

Moira McQueen, mother of eight and moral theologian, thought Pope Francis’ off-the-cuff remark about Catholics reproducing like rabbits was hilarious.

The Pope, during his Jan. 19 press conference aboard the papal flight home from the Philippines, told reporters, “Some people think — excuse me for saying this — that to be good Catholics we have to be like rabbits.” The Pope stressed that Catholics need to practise “responsible parenthood.”

“To me it’s funny, maybe because I have a large family,” she said. “But also because he’s just so spontaneous. I think it’s the kind of remark one makes in conversation. He would not put that in an encyclical.”

Among Catholics who have been radically open to life in their own marriages, it seems nobody is taking offence at the Pope’s impromptu lesson in responsible parenthood.

“He’s completely correct. He’s not making any new statements,” said Patrick Douglas, a 39-year-old father of eight, whose wife Carissa is expecting twins in the next month. “We’re all called to responsible parenthood.”

For 42-year-old Liz Rebello, whose six boys and six girls range in age from nine months to 17 years, there’s no reason to second guess the Pope’s remarks.

“It sounded like people were kind of missing what the Pope was actually saying,” said Rebello.

Pope Francis spoke further about large families Jan. 21.

“Healthy families are essential to the life of society. It gave us consolation and hope to see so many large families that welcome children as a true gift of God,” he said.

“They know that every child is a gift of God. I heard it said that families with many children and the birth of so many children are among the causes of poverty. It seems to me to be a simplistic opinion. I can say that the main cause of poverty is an economic system that has removed the person from the centre and put the god of money there — an economic system that excludes, that always excludes, children, the elderly, the youth without work.”

The Catholic Children’s Aid Society in Toronto never finds itself intervening in families just because of sheer numbers.

“In speaking to some of our clinical staff, there is no correlation between family size and the issues that bring families into contact with CCAS,” said spokesperson Alison McLennan in an e-mail. “Factors such as mental illness, addiction, domestic abuse and poverty contribute to problems with parenting and can be present regardless of the number of children in a family.”

The idea of responsible parenthood got a big boost in Catholic teaching from Pope Paul VI’s 1968 encyclical Humanae Vitae.

“With regard to physical, economic, psychological and social conditions, responsible parenthood is exercised by those who prudently and generously decide to have more children, and by those who, for serious reasons and with due respect to moral precepts, decide not to have additional children for either a certain or an indefinite period of time,” wrote Blessed Pope Paul.

Rebello had her first 10 children without ever thinking of limiting family size.

“When we had our 10th one, I remember saying to my husband that if I have another baby right now, if I get pregnant, it’s not going to be good for this family because physically I wasn’t feeling that great,” Rebello said.

She and her husband Steve then began to practise natural family planning, which stretched the gap between number 10 and 11.

Rebello and her family get plenty of attention. On balance, Rebello finds she encounters more positive reactions than negative.

“They think it’s the most incredible thing that we can handle having all these kids,” she said.

Patrick Douglas finds more curiosity and positive comments.

“Maybe they’re just being polite to my face. But it’s a good thing to be able to share that — that it’s something that is possible and something that is joyous.”

Comments (1)

This comment was minimized by the moderator on the site

I have doubts, based on the comments, whether or not the people you quote watched the video of the Pope speaking when he was talking about "rebuking" (that was his word) the mother of 7 who was about to have baby number 8 by c-section. He...

I have doubts, based on the comments, whether or not the people you quote watched the video of the Pope speaking when he was talking about "rebuking" (that was his word) the mother of 7 who was about to have baby number 8 by c-section. He "rebuked" her in front of the entire world.

Read More
There are no comments posted here yet

Leave your comments

  1. Posting comment as a guest. Sign up or login to your account.
Attachments (0 / 3)
Share Your Location

Support The Catholic Register

Unlike many other news websites, The Catholic Register has never charged readers for access to the news and information on our site. We want to keep our award-winning journalism as widely available as possible. But we need your help.

For more than 125 years, The Register has been a trusted source of faith based journalism. By making even a small donation you help ensure our future as an important voice in the Catholic Church. If you support the mission of Catholic journalism, please donate today. Thank you. 


Comment

ProLifeWashington

Herman Goodden: No signs of defeat on path of resistance 

Though my legs and lower vertebrae sympathetically throbbed at the prospect of spending another 16 out of 24 sleep-deprived hours...

Faith

Pope's homily

Features

Education

CEW 2019

Catholic Education Week

The Catholic Register celebrates the contributions of Catholic Education.