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April 20


Easter’s consolation is that life, not death, has the final word

April 20, 2011

The Resurrection of Christ is depicted in a 16th-century painting. Easter reminds us that life wins out over death. (CNS/Eric Lessing/Art Resource) [images/stories/faith/faith11/easterartgrief.jpg]Grieving — the painful physical, emotional and spiritual journey that we go through to come to terms with the loss of someone through death, separation or divorce — is among the most sacred and the most human things one will ever undergo. It plummets us into the mysteries of life. On a weekend during this season of Lent, members of my family experienced an emotional roller-coaster, marked by both death and new life. On the Friday, we gathered in prayer and remembrance to honour the life of our mother on the first anniversary of her death. One of my brothers was not able to be with us because he was at the hospital with his son and daughter-in-law, who had a few days earlier prematurely given birth at the five-month mark to twins, a boy and a girl. The tiny girl died on the afternoon of mom’s anniversary. The boy seemed to be doing better, but on Saturday his kidneys ceased to function. Late Sunday morning we baptized a different baby boy born to a second brother’s son and wife. And in the afternoon we received word that the surviving twin had just died. At six o’clock that evening came yet more news: the daughter of a third brother had just given birth to a healthy son to whom she and her husband chose to give the name Francis, my deceased father’s name. Within the span of seven hours there was a Baptism, another death and a birth.